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Robert Gordon Rutherford

March 17th, 1927 - January 3rd, 2026
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Robert Gordon Rutherford was born on March 17, 1927, in Fort Willian (Thunder Bay) Ontario to parents Wilf and Hazel Rutherford and passed away on January 03, 2026 in Port Coquitlam, British Columbia after a full and accomplished life of 98 years.

The Rutherfords had six children (Peter, Dorothy, Robert, Mary, Lyndell and Helen in that order) and lived on a large piece of property on Willingdon Ave in Burnaby. A piece of their homestead was later turned into a park called Old Orchard Park. A plaque at the entrance tells the story.

While growing up he had lots of pets. A childhood dog named Dinty would follow him while he was riding one of his horses (Duke, Goldie and Speedy) back and forth from school or around Burnaby. He also owned a boxer he named "Mugs" and said that he felt she was a bit short on brains. Once he started his own family, he got us a puppy we called "Rags". We all loved that dog including Randy who turned out to be allergic to dog hair.

Bob signed up to join the Navy at the age of 18 on May 11, 1945, and was discharged due to demobilization on February 19, 1946.

On his return to Burnaby, he was introduced to Virginia Louise Doyle by his sister Dorothy who were both working at the Vancouver General Hospital as nurses. This courtship resulted in their marriage on the 13th of April 1949 in Victoria BC. This love affair lasted 74 years until Virginia passed away on February 06, 2024.

During their 74 years together, they accomplished a great deal. They started off by building a house on Sussex Street and started their own family. They raised their three boys (Stephen, Philip and Randy) in their larger house on Shepherd Street that became the family home for the next 50 plus years. During those years on Shepherd Street Bob worked at Simpson Sears on Kingsway in Burnaby as a department manager. Gardening became a passion for both Bob and Virginia with them winning the "Best of Burnaby backyards" several years in a row. They both joined the Burnaby Garden club, made many new friends and took great pride in showing their flowers and vegetables that they grew in their backyard.

Bob was an excellent fisherman, both on the river or out on the ocean. He rebuilt his first boat that we named "The Molly Brown" and took his 3 boys out to teach us how to fish. We spent many a summer vacation boating, fishing, swimming, water skiing and camping on the west coast and the interior of BC. Bob was a great teacher and very artistic. He was always ready to assist others at the garden club and got me started with my stained-glass hobby. His stepping stones and stained-glass art continues to adorn friends and neighbours' homes.

Bob's final years were spent at Nicola lodge where the staff and residents all liked and respected him. He always made a point of remembering your name when you visited him by making you write your name in his book and on his calendar, as he could no longer trust his memory. Bob spent his final 2 years without the love of his life, but he never forgot her. Each day he would talk to her and sing one of his two favorite songs to her, "We'll Meet Again Some Day" by Gene Autry and "Whatever Will Be Will Be" by Doris Day.

Robert (Bob) Rutherford was a true gentleman and so much more. He was chivalrous, courteous, honorable, charitable, and kind. As with his childhood animals, Bob had an easy way with children who liked and trusted him as did everyone who got to know him.

It was his wish for a simple farewell by cremation with no flowers or service and donations to a charity of the donors choosing. Bob is survived by his sons, Stephen and Philip, daughter-in-law, Zoria and grandchildren, Heather and Kevin. Bob will be greatly missed by all of us who had the pleasure to have had him touch each of our lives in his special way.

We have been blessed to have had such a great gentleman that we can call our father.

Philip and Steve Rutherford


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Tom and Marnie Brown
January 27th, 2026
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To Bob's Family

Last Sunday, Bob's neighbor at Nicola Lodge, Roslin, shared Bob's life story, very well written by Stephen and Phillip, from her phone with us.

Here is what I now know - me being fellow resident Tom Brown's wife. Long story short, I was a high school pal of Lyndell Babcock. We have stories between us!!! We did not continue to keep in contact following graduation in l968 but I clearly remember the fun we had, the family home, her Mom and Dad, her brother and two sisters. We lived close to 15th and Rupert and I passed the laundromat at least once a day walking to and from Windermere Secondary. My brother remembers the big pink elephant standing on two feet and the long, long trunk. My mother carried the living room drapes once a year to be washed in one of their bigger machines. My sister remembers that Becky dated the nephew of our next-door neighbour. He, too, lived in our area affectionately known as the War Zone - as the homes were built for WW11 veterans and the streets were named for battlegrounds.

Tom and I signed Bob's book, tasted the smoked salmon, were offered endless amounts of candy and, as Bob liked my handwriting, I wrote down the names of songs so he could make requests when Brian came to the Chinook neighborhood on Thursday afternoons.

I was starting to think of what to make for the 99th birthday card. He will be sorely missed by the two of us as he was a bright spot in our day. We hope he has found someone to bring him his hot chocolate every morning.

Sincerely, Marnie and Tom Brown

Glenys Hughes
January 26th, 2026

I am so very glad I was able to have a wonderful visit with Uncle Bob this past December. While he hadn't seen me in years, Bob needed little prompting to remember Lyndell's daughter! Uncle Bob and I shared a love of animals, and I enjoyed listening to him recount his memories of the dogs and horses in his life. Many times my mom related to me the story of Bob receiving the gift of a pony at Christmas time, and how everyone was so happy for him. It was a very special memory for her (and for Bob, too, I should suppose!).
My visits with Bob and Virginia in Burnaby always involved a tour of their magnificent garden as well as a fishing trip and a visit to Rutherford Rock.
I shall always remember their warmth and kindness.
My condolences to Steven and Philip and their families, Helen, and all who knew Bob well.
Sincerely,
Glenys Hughes
Metcalfe, Ontario

Lourine Babcock
January 22nd, 2026
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I was the youngest of 4 and Uncle Bob and Auntie Virginia would take care of me when mom (Dorothy - Uncle Bob’s oldest sister) and dad had to travel prior to us moving from from Alaska to Vancouver. There were a number of times I was left in their care, and was pretty little, but I do remember one time I had a “cooked carrot” issue and was having no part of having any on my plate let alone actually being expected to eat them! I don’t remember how bad of a fuss I put up, but knowing me, it was probably bad! But I DO remember Uncle Bob’s calm, soft voice telling me it was ok and if I didn’t want to eat them it was just fine. Auntie confirmed the same and I just loved them to pieces for being so understanding of my pure dislike of those nasty carrots and didn’t force those devils on me! Funny what leaves an imprint in your mind, but I just know that their response left an impression on me that was so sweet and kind. During our growing up years, all the family reunions and get togethers for vacation at Cultus Lake were anticipated with great excitement! My dad and Uncle Bob had a shared business venture with the Pinky Laundromat on Rupert Street. I remember him as being a committed businessman, a devoted husband and father and a wonderful caring and loving Uncle. The photo attached was from a reunion in Kamloops.

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