It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Donna-Mae McShane, 79, on November 6, 2024, in Surrey, BC. A beloved mother, sister, grandmother, cousin, aunt, and friend, she will be deeply missed.
Born on May 21, 1945, in Vancouver, Donna-Mae was the daughter of Don and Lil Egan. She grew up in Haney, BC, and attended Maple Ridge Secondary School. As a teenager, she became the Honored Queen at the Haney chapter of Job’s Daughters. Donna-Mae developed a love for cars and spent Friday nights attending local drag races. She was also a talented pianist, loved to sing, and proudly authored her own cook book, titled "If It's Easy, Donna Does It".
Donna-Mae’s adventurous spirit led her to travel, including a time spent living in England, where she worked as a Keypunch Operator for Rolls-Royce. She later married Lan (John Lansing) McShane, and in 1979, they relocated from Maple Ridge to Garfield Street in New Westminster, BC. Donna-Mae worked as a legal assistant for Rhodes, Percival, McShane, while raising her family. In 1992, the family moved to Sherwood Park, Alberta, where Donna-Mae became a stay-at-home mom and discovered her artistic passion for painting.
In 2007, Donna-Mae and Lan returned to BC to retire in Abbotsford. They also purchased a small park model in a retirement community near Phoenix, Arizona, where they enjoyed their PT Cruiser convertible, countless cups of coffee and cappuccinos, and the company of friends while escaping the cold BC winters.
Donna-Mae is predeceased by her husband, Lan McShane, and her parents, Don and Lil Egan. She is survived by her children, Brian (Lisa) McShane and Adrienne Gbadamosi (née McShane); her brother, Rob (Sania) Egan; and her granddaughters, Leah McShane, Kate McShane, Tara McShane, and Zayna Gbadamosi. She will also be missed by her beloved parrot, Golly.
Of all the roles Donna-Mae held in her life, being a grandmother to Leah, Kate, Tara, and Zayna surpassed them all.
We are thankful for the quirky yet bright light she shone throughout her life — from passionately monitoring for palindromic odometer readings to selflessly sharing her homemade cinnamon twists, and for the many positive contributions she made to the lives of those around her. Despite challenges, including knee replacements, a hip replacement, and Well-Leg Closed Compartment Syndrome (requiring an emergency fasciotomy), Donna-Mae endured and persevered, always keeping on.
Donna-Mae infused as much color and beauty into her life as she could. May we all choose to live brightly, embrace who we are unapologetically, and persevere through life, just as she did, to the very end.
December 5th, 2024
I got married 24 years ago and Donna gave me a wooden sled welcome sign that she had painted for winter/Christmas and it is currently on my door welcoming everyone this Christmas.
November 29th, 2024
I have great memories of both Lan and Donna. Always interesting to be with them, lots of laughs and giggles and never a boring moment.
It is always a little difficult when your parents pass. Even though when they age and have lived a good life and you know `that day' is coming and you think you are prepared but really are not. It is that finality of them not being here and all of a sudden you are now the patriarch/patriarch of the family.
Brian and Adrienne, count your blessings for the great parents you had and the way they raised you and supported. We sorrow today but look forward to the day we will see them again in heaven.
November 29th, 2024
Smiles, winks, laughter, good real talk, friendship, glitter, cockatoos, generosity, going for a ride, and love. These are what comes to mind when we think of your Mom - love from our Mom and all
of our family ❤️🙏🏻💕
November 28th, 2024
My condolences to each one of you. Donna was always welcoming, even when you dropped in and coffee was always on. She brought much color to my life. I have a few items she made for me. Love and prayers to you all.
November 28th, 2024
Yes! Color! Donna brought bright, cheerful color to our lives and I cherish my memories of her. 💕
November 28th, 2024
Donna was one of the most interesting people I ever knew. She loved life and made people feel noticed and special. Donna had a flare for the unusual and a curiosity that was childlike which endured her to everyone. I have many sweet memories of her generous spirit and kind heart. I loved her friendship and will cherish her memory forever.
November 28th, 2024
Donna
I will miss you my Donna
I will never forget our Westshore Life
I will always cherish those memories
May your soul rest in peace
November 28th, 2024
A beautiful tribute to a great friend. When Donna lived in Alberta, her visits to our home were frequent and most enjoyable. Lots of time spent painting and other crafty ideas. She always liked a bit of Color in her hair … this complimented the beauty in her personality. A flare for the dare to be different. Our condolences to the family … a time of great loss. Love and prayers.
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