It is with profound sorrow and sadness to state on Friday, July 13 2018 at 9:14 pm our beloved 41-year-old son passed from this world into the next. He struggled most of his teen and adult life but through it all his love for family stayed strong. He leaves behind his two older sisters, Monica and Kimberley whom he loved and looked up to. When his family blended in 1986 he started a strong bond with an older brother Paul, a protective relationship with 2 sisters Juliska and Maria.
Kris leaves behind his beloved son Diego(15), son Dontae(11) and daughter Ava(8). He loved to read self-improvement books and in 2016 Kris started his road to self improvement, managed to stand tall, attend BCIT, graduated with honors and secured a good job and started to feel proud of himself. He was much loved by his family and many many friends. Kris made friends wherever he resided. Everyone who met Kris saw quality in him. We are all so sad at his passing. Paul and Josie Vanderzee, his loving and caring parents.
June 27th, 2022
Being able to finally (most of the time ) accept your departure from this physical land and earth and move forward has even unimaginable to say the least but years past birthdays fly by (you couldn't wait for this year because your birthday would be 02-22-2022 ) and milestones slowly pass on by , but I'm finally where I feel you would be proud. Is the journey done ? Heck no. Will it ever feel accomplished? NO! This is an uphill battle with toy swords and cookie sheilds but I've graduated university gained a certificate in a trade, gotten so close to our daughter (who reminds me of you in the best and worst ways lol jk) just alike your other children through them you live on. I've contacted Diego infact and he is beyond flourishing you would be so so darn proud! Avas ability to wrap her mind around mathematics is astonishing in replica of you not to mention her stubborn and strong hold of a belief system is undoubtedly you and possibly me lol. She's 11 now and as tall as me 5 ft talk. Wicked at shot put and track n field. All of the Wolfevillage gain is doing you proud I swear upon that for sure! Anyways I wanted to share a happy day living in memory of you and a day where I am not sunk with despair in hopes to possibly help anyone and brighten your glow as I know you are around us at all times. Anyways I love you forever and always as you were my best friend and family for ever
February 23rd, 2019
Sincerely sorry for your loss Josie - I just read through the comments above - a much-loved, great young man. With love, Dave
February 22nd, 2019
Happy birthday Kris. You would have been 42 today. God willing you are safe in the arms of Jesus. No more pain or suffering. I love and miss you.
December 25th, 2018
Love you my son. Merry Christmas in heaven. ❤️❤️❤️
November 27th, 2018
Think about you every day
November 16th, 2018
May you rest in Peace!
October 5th, 2018
And if that 100 visitors it doesn't even scratch the surface of how many people he touched and how many people that wanted to come but Were unable to make it if everyone that wanted to come actually came it would have been jam packed service. I can't put into words how many people kris touched
October 5th, 2018
Thank you Andee. He was loved by many. He was a fine man.
September 4th, 2018
Over 100 people came to show their respect. Many of your friends spoke their thankfulness knowing you. How much you helped them in their time of need. Jiovanni from BCIT spoke of "be proud, he tried". His whole speech brought tears to many eyes. You, Kris, were much loved by a variety of personalities. I love you and miss you, my son.
August 27th, 2018
Kris was so handsome with the most gorgeous eyes and smile.
August 27th, 2018
Yes Kris was so handsome hands down I've yet to find anyone else comparable
August 12th, 2018
With much sympathy and warm thoughts for the way too soon passing of your beloved son, Kris. I love you, and my heart breaks for you at the same time. Susan & Bruce
August 7th, 2018
Cannot find the words... safe travels my friend
August 6th, 2018
Rest In Peace Kristopher you’re family will miss you, but now you are an angel to watch over your loved ones
August 6th, 2018
Sending you all my love xo
August 6th, 2018
In loving memory of a sweet man who was taken too soon. My heart goes out to the loved ones left behind who’s hearts I know are broken ❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss and Kris may you Rest In Peace. Love Always, Melissa
July 27th, 2018
Dear Josie and family. Kristophers spirit will live on through his children and his siblings and your love for him.
May you find strength In all that you hold dear.
July 26th, 2018
I remember this moment. I had forgotten the part about the doorknob turning first! Must have been scary. I miss him so much. Thank you for sharing xo kim
July 26th, 2018
Remembering
July 26th, 2018
Kris you were a big part of my life back in the day, my first for many things you've always had a piece of my heart. May you rest in peace my friend
💚💙
July 26th, 2018
We never met you...but if Monica and Mike are an example, that's our loss..
July 25th, 2018
I will always remember the very first day we met. I was in my living room, on Madrona pl.,(white-rock/South Surrey) ironing my clothes for that day. I was 16 years old. When suddenly my attention was brought to the front door? I stood for what felt longer then the few minutes, watching my front door knob turning first one way then the other way. Whoever was on the other side of that door, now had my full attention. Then with no warning Kris stumbled in and fell the very short distance to the floor. He quickly stood himself up straight and with a straight face said, “hi, I’m David Banner!”
It was so hard for me to keep a serious face in front of this three year old but I did and replied,
“Very pleased to meet you!” Lol
When I think of Kris, I think of that day I had a superhero visit me. 💕
Love all you guys! Oxo
July 25th, 2018
Thank you Tammy, he wanted to be a protector way back then. I remember laughing about that incident with you.
July 24th, 2018
Will miss you always. Rest peacefully Kris.
July 24th, 2018
You were the first person to teach me to use a pillowcase for trick or treating! Way more candy that way. Thank you for watching over me as your little sister. I will miss you Kris! Xo
July 23rd, 2018
The staff at ACCESS Trades first met Kris when he applied for a seat in the ACCESS sponsored BCIT Metal Fabrication program. He excelled in the program, had perfect attendance, a stellar attitude, and was so good natured. Kris was one of the best students we have ever worked with. After graduation he found employment as a first year apprentice and we were all excited knowing Kris was on the road to a great future and we looked forward to mentoring him over the next few years. To his family and friends please know how very sorry we are....we will miss him too...
July 23rd, 2018
Well Kris , you said you would take care of me all the time and not let any harm come my way from anyone ... you must have known Im in good hands now with my man. You said to keep this one because he’s good for me , he’s a good guy :) I trusted this. You were wise and knew more than most ! I will always have a huge spot in my heart for you forever. Thank you for being such a loving brother to me. Family is love not always blood .. you made that true ..I have Peace in my heart knowing your safe and free but I will miss you always !!
July 23rd, 2018
Kristopher, i love you just as much as i did eight years ago as i did the day youve moved on. Im so honored and happy to have entered into your family and life. Through thick and thin our love stayed solid. Yes we were on and off for some of our eight years acquainted. Your love and passion for me and for your views on life, spirituality, family life and bodily health are some of the pillara i want to raise our daughter with. She may not have been blessed to get up close and personal with you like me but your bloodline runs throughout her and theres no denying your prescence i. Her life. Now that youve moved on from our world, your soul is far from dead your a force to be reconed with and your so so simply and easily gone nor erased. Your shadow will forever cool me on. Hot days and surround me and warm me on cold ones. I love you kristopher i always have, my only regret is we didnt officialize our relationship when we had the chance, after three engagement rings for me, we should have made it official. I always will feel as a widow to your death and i know you wouldnt mind that at all. Again i love you my lil winnie the pooh xoxo
July 23rd, 2018
Always handy when it comes to finding solutions. I hope your proud of me and how i carry your ray of light in my life xoxo
July 21st, 2018
Peace my baby brother. So hard to find the right words. You are in my heart and thoughts till we see each other again. Love you mouth piece.
July 20th, 2018
You are loved and missed
July 20th, 2018
Thank you Jen. You were very helpful to us emotionally
July 20th, 2018
Fly away Kris, you are free
July 20th, 2018
Love you always. You were my sunshine
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